Mostly your SOL

unless you take to moding your own sets and even then it's not garenteed...
Notice you don't have the troubles with your laptop makers drivers?
But laptop makers rarely update thier drivers like thay are supposed to.
The moded drivers install and work on laptops but it's possably untested or not setup up properly to the exact specs of you laptop.
guys how about some links to your manufactures drivers? only if they work properly with video's! but new drivers don't there could be a common setting thats at work
EDIT: has anyone tried this?
try copying in files from the new drivers
Driver/2KXP_INF/foldernamehere/ files
into one of the sets from your laptop maker
Driver/2KXP_INF/foldernamehere/ files
then install your laptopmaker set you just modified