Malkor asked this question in another thread that I somehow missed. I know that the thread was started for me to explain and I want to without name calling or nonsense accusations of homophobe.
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Someone has stated there is a difference between being a homosexual and living a homosexual lifestyle. Again, I am not attacking this person, just inviting a little honest debate, from anyone really. It was stated that a homosexual is not abnormal but a homosexual lifestyle is abnormal. I don't quite understand the differentiation. Could someone help me understand what is meant by this?
Please define first what a homosexual is then define what a homosexual lifestyle is and how one is abnormal and the other is not.
How are these separate or are they?
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I am going to try to explain this the best I can in the small ammount of time that I have to do so. First let me try to give an example of this. Jehova's Witnesses for example bother people when visiting people's home's to advertise their religion. Now I do not hate Jehova's Witnesses, I used to live next door to a family of them and they were great people. I however did not care for their religion. We never really discussed it and I respected the fact that it was their choice. Never once ever had a problem with them personally.
Now about homosexuality. I had friends over the past 10 years of being in the military and what not that were gay. I was good friends with one of them, went out for beers with him, whatever. I knew he was gay. He knew that I wasn't and we got along just fine and respected one another's personal choices. I just did not agree with his lifestyle. I did not agree with two men having sex together. He knew that but we never argued about it and he never tried to hit on me. We respected one another's opinions on the matter. Of course over time you lose contact with people when you are in the military and each goes his own way. Now he admitted to me that he was gay dispite the "don't ask, don't tell" policy of the military. I never reported him, it wasn't any of my business.
As you can see and I hope this makes some sense and answers some of the questions asked. You can disagree with the homosexuality just like some of you do not want to be christians or you hate religion, that doesn't make you a biggot. That doens't mean you hate Christians. Now I can not say the same for everyone on both sides of the political spectrum. You will never hear me say: "I hate homosexuals" and you will never find reference to such. Yet I've been accused as such here and such accusations apparently cary some weight which is unfair. I challenge some of you to seriously browse through these forums and you will find people say such things as "I hate Christians" rather than "I hate christianity." There is a difference and that is what you call biggotry.
(In a hurry, no time for spell checking and gramar checking, will fix later)