uhg this is insane!

Geminiwave · Jan 14, 2006, 04:52 PM

Alright so alittle background here: I have this friend of mine whom I met several years back. Sweet girl. We dated for a very short time but figured out that it wasnt going anywhere and that we were just really close friends. Well one day her parents basically told her that I'm not allowed to see her anymore...that was about a year ago. I haven't seen her since. Yesterday I went to take my brother to this conference thingy for highschool kids. He is on staff there so he had to get there early. I use to go to this thing in highschool all the time. It was mad fun, and also where I met this friend. Anyway she showed up because shes still a senior in highschool and it was a really happy reunion. She cried and clung to me for about 20 minutes and then I had to leave so I had to peel her off of me.

but now I'm pissed. I mean seriously she and I are really good friends and I'm SO PISSED that I'm not allowed to go hang out with her. There is no reason for this. Its not like we even did anything while we were dating and her parents CERTAINLY didnt catch us doing anything.

really I just dont get it.

uhg...

brutusmaximus · Jan 14, 2006, 05:20 PM

That sucks man, did you ever piss her parents off by doing something? It may well be they just dont want her around a certain kind of guy. I had a friend who loved this girl and her parents didnt want her near him as he was pretty streetwise and they thought he was going to corrupt her.

CDsDontBurn · Jan 14, 2006, 05:27 PM

damn gemini, striking out w/all the ladies huh?

seriously though, just keep it simple and don't let girls get to you

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mike2h · Jan 14, 2006, 05:47 PM

not to be mean, but if you guys really wanted to spend time together you would.
my parents constantly tried to control my freinds when i was a kid. they never succeeded.

Geminiwave · Jan 14, 2006, 06:47 PM

well its a complicated issue. Mostly because she doesn't want to run away. They just about keep that girl on a leash. She only leaves the house when they let her, they TAKE her wherever shes going and they call her up constantly...

I mean yes I could see her but it would be extremely difficult. So much so, that it hasn't happened until now. I mean seriously its crazy. I can't wait for them to start asking who she keeps calling every week cause my number shows up on their cellphone bill frequently. :-\

oh yeah and CDs. I'm not trying to score with this chick. Shes a really good friend, but not like that. The girl(s) I'm trying to score with now ...well I'm bein alot more chill about it. Its alot easier since I'm in college and the ladies I'm after are ALSO in college...and most don't live at home so its all good.

riles9262 · Jan 14, 2006, 07:16 PM

Well if her friendship means a lot to you, you should have a serious talk to her parents about it, and let them know they have nothing to worry about. It'll take some balls, but i believe in you

CDsDontBurn · Jan 14, 2006, 08:00 PM

well, how old is this girl? remember, in the long run kids will rebel against their parents and do their own thing.

SFOSOK · Jan 14, 2006, 08:04 PM

Do what you want. If your not doin what you want in a situation like this then your not living as much as you could be.

So as I said, do what you want, and who gives a shit about her parents.

LHC · Jan 14, 2006, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by CDsDontBurn

well, how old is this girl? remember, in the long run kids will rebel against their parents and do their own thing.

Said in his post that she's a senior in high school

But I pretty much agree with what everyone is saying. If it's important that you two spend time together, do something about it

Geminiwave · Jan 14, 2006, 09:01 PM

yeah. As soon as she gets back in town I'm going to have a talk with her. Probably either sunday evening or monday morning.

man...this totaly bites.

CDsDontBurn · Jan 14, 2006, 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by LHC

Said in his post that she's a senior in high school

yea, i know. a senior in H.S. is somebody who is either already 18, or soon to turn 18.

Geminiwave · Jan 14, 2006, 09:15 PM

soon to be 18.

and yea I've already thought of what you're probably thinking now.

pr0digal jenius · Jan 15, 2006, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Geminiwave

yeah. As soon as she gets back in town I'm going to have a talk with her. Probably either sunday evening or monday morning. .

*BZZZZT* Wrong answer.

Talk to her PARENTS. ask them why they amde the rule, and what you could do to earn their trust. Sounds corny, but it works, trust me. My girlfriend's mom likes me [and is thus much more "chill" about things], simply cuz she trusts me and I actually talk to her and treat her like family, rather then hating her like a date's mom

daedal · Jan 15, 2006, 01:51 AM

Damnit, PJ beat me to it.
I was gonna say talk to her parents too, and explain to them that you're not a bad guy.
Chances are they're afraid of you, and/or your influence over their daughter.

pr0digal jenius · Jan 15, 2006, 01:55 AM

and they should be....you just have to convince them otherwise, and not let them see how bad you're "ruining" their daughter