Girlfriend Cheating, need advice!

TJ- · Jan 14, 2006, 12:29 AM

I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been cheating on me. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from uni, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my girlfriend. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was while crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself? I just don't know what to do. Rust can be a bad thing.

ferret2004 · Jan 14, 2006, 01:36 AM

I'd have a body shop fix the rust. I have rust in the same spot on my Civic.
As for the GF, flat out ask her about your suspicion. If she's cheatin' on ya, dump the b!tch.

Drakon · Jan 14, 2006, 02:20 AM

Wait! Is this thread about your girl cheating or the rust on ur car?

cheese_thief · Jan 14, 2006, 02:46 AM

Maybe rust on his girlfriend?

LuCifer · Jan 14, 2006, 02:49 AM

Damn sounds like cheating to me..

Sandok · Jan 14, 2006, 02:50 AM

Ummm okay... Weird....

Dude if she's cheating talk to her about it... But meh, rust is more important imho.

LuCifer · Jan 14, 2006, 02:57 AM

LMAO! Sandok

Nacht · Jan 14, 2006, 04:54 AM

I think it was supposed to be a joke?

The_Neon_Cowboy · Jan 14, 2006, 05:03 AM

If I felt like being funny I'd say one of two things that hopefully your G/F
doesn't read this forum Or something along the lines of I rember to drop
her off a little further away next time

Bwhahaha

But I've herd this before some were I think your meaning to make a joke?

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Originally Posted by Drakon

Wait! Is this thread about your girl cheating or the rust on ur car?

my thoughts exactly

TJ- · Jan 14, 2006, 05:58 AM

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Originally Posted by The_Neon_Cowboy

But I've herd this before some were I think your meaning to make a joke?

yep its a joke to see what you guys would say.

Sandok · Jan 14, 2006, 09:27 AM

Obviously we care more about the rust

**Vikingod** · Jan 14, 2006, 09:40 AM

LOL, you seem very broken up by this Zion. I'd definetely take care of the rust.

Oh, and if your girl is really cheating, just leave, talking solves nothing in that situation.

Sandok · Jan 14, 2006, 09:45 AM

It's better to make sure she IS cheating... Cuz if you don't...

What if she's gonna suprise you with the ultimate St. Valentines gift and already starting to prepare now?

Drakon · Jan 14, 2006, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by cheese_thief

Maybe rust on his girlfriend?

LMAO! Maybe that's really it

OmegaRED · Jan 14, 2006, 11:49 AM

ROFL muhahahaha

riles9262 · Jan 14, 2006, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by cheese_thief

Maybe rust on his girlfriend?

lol you never know what her other acquaintance has after all...but in all seriousness, cheating is unforgivable, and imo, she's already busted. If you need even more concrete evidence, then go for it, but if you even suspect it, and she's beating around the bush and getting defensive, she's nailing some other dude or chick. Get rid of her sorry ass.

CDsDontBurn · Jan 14, 2006, 12:27 PM

man, if my baby had rust, i'd take her to a body shop ASAP. rust is a big nono. as for the other girlie, do what needs to be done, you know where you keep the shottie

. lol, j/p

pigdog · Jan 14, 2006, 12:39 PM

Don't be too hasty Z. What if your GF is actually selling her body to complete strangers, so as to raise money to get the rust in your car fixed?

Sort of like a birthday surprise for you. . . . . . .

CDsDontBurn · Jan 14, 2006, 12:56 PM

that works too

SFOSOK · Jan 14, 2006, 01:06 PM

I would have said get a nice shotgun and wait for the car (just make sure you aim for the Driver side, but you should take care of that rust first.

Eitherway nice joke

mainman · Jan 14, 2006, 08:42 PM

Dump her, fix the ar. next question?

ferret2004 · Jan 15, 2006, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by pigdog

Don't be too hasty Z. What if your GF is actually selling her body to complete strangers, so as to raise money to get the rust in your car fixed?

Sort of like a birthday surprise for you. . . . . . .

See if she'll raise enough to fix my car too