[Mousey]

Originally Posted by Callandor

Kk, best of luck should she pull anything

lol i'm still waiting for her classic "You hurt me so much" bulletin on myspace like she posted for every other bugger she went out with She's such an e-drama queen honestly lol

EDIT - lmfao! as if payback wasn't sweet enough, she's fallen out with her "Best friend forever" and they've stopped talking to each other. Sweet christ i nearly fell off my chair laughing

[CDsDontBurn]

Originally Posted by Callandor

Sorry to hear about that dude, hope you're not takin' it too badly, I've had my fair share of stuff my parents did that ended up hurting the family or me and my brothers and sisters or both, but in the end it only makes you stronger. Just try not to take it too hard man and you'll be fine.

Edit: btw I've forgiven them/we've made up now and everything's k, but it wasn't cool at the time when I was just a kid having to go through all this and that and all, my dad and mum almost nearly split up as well, but I hope the best for you and your family in this difficult time.

*update*

talking to my mom just now, they were able to "kiss and make up" per say.

we had a family meeting on saturday to talk about all of our problems and it was mainly focused on trusting each other and doing things as a family again.

the reason why i made that comment last night was because my dad never came back home after he went to "pick up his clothes" which he left at 7pm. My mom was POed like no other.

today in the court room she told me, that minutes before they entered, they discussed further to see if my dad did in fact want to return home and be a family again. he said yes and my mom asked the judge to drop the divorce.

TBH, i'm not sure what to do anymore. i told them that i just want to finish paying off my credit cards, save up some money, and move into my own pad. hopefully, i can acoomplish that by spring.

[Callandor]

It's good to hear that they were able to work it out dude, I actually thought you were living on your own lol, g/l with moving out, paying off your debts and everything, I know how you feel, was pretty much in the same situtation not too long ago, really as it is atm still just starting out, good thing is I've got lots of family friends to help me out and extended family that cares, and not to mention a little brother that understands the meaning of brotherly love as well (we help each other out if need be before we go to bother anyone else, it's been like that , well, as far as I can remember when we used to try and not tell/help each other out of trouble/getting in trouble), yeah so I know what you mean man. Everything will fall into place in time dude, just don't rush it and hold on. But you don't seem at the end of your tether like I was lol, so it's k.

[Callandor]

Lol, now both you and coz are working feverishly.

[CDsDontBurn]

Originally Posted by Callandor

It's good to hear that they were able to work it out dude, I actually thought you were living on your own lol, g/l with moving out, paying off your debts and everything, I know how you feel, was pretty much in the same situtation not too long ago, really as it is atm still just starting out, good thing is I've got lots of family friends to help me out and extended family that cares, and not to mention a little brother that understands the meaning of brotherly love as well (we help each other out if need be before we go to bother anyone else, it's been like that , well, as far as I can remember when we used to try and not tell/help each other out of trouble/getting in trouble), yeah so I know what you mean man. Everything will fall into place in time dude, just don't rush it and hold on. But you don't seem at the end of your tether like I was lol, so it's k.

no, i'm still living at home with the 'rents. but seriously, i would have moved out WAY long ago if i could have afforded it earlier and if the evguh paid more. they pay us beans there. i get paid more at my new job and do WAY less work there. i'd quit the evguh or work there only part time if the new place offered full time work.

it's good to hear that your family is that close. i have family that loves me and all too, but i think i'll be on my own if shit hit the fan like that in the end. I have one aunt that is still recovering from her surgeries, another aunt that has a full-house, and my grandma/other aunt/cousin all live together, so i know i couldn't live there if shit went down.

i'm the oldest of three kids, and my sister - known as SilentSociety here on DH if you remember - i couldn't depend on her the same way you can on your brother it seems. it would have to be me all me to get my shit down pat myself.

idk, i guess i'm just being pessemistic ATM

[CDsDontBurn]

Originally Posted by Callandor

Lol, now both you and coz are working feverishly.

yea, but i still can post from both places of work

[Callandor]

Originally Posted by CDsDontBurn

idk, i guess i'm just being pessemistic ATM

Ah don't worry, it'll all work out in the end. Like one of my good friends used to say (who now's got most everything he wants out of life; a 1976 cadillac, a good girl, and a nice pay check lol), "you worry you die, you don't worry you still die, so why worry"? Like that dude in Grid says sometimes with the ravenwest races, do your best, it's all you can do and knowing you should be all that you need to get through it all.

[CDsDontBurn]

i don't have GRID, lol. furthermore, i have PGR4 and NFS: Pro Street for my 360 that i STILL haven't opened. i purchased both these games at the same time back in July .

I still want to get that new Star Wars game, Star Wars: The Force Unleashed. it looks so bad ass

[Callandor]

lol, heard NFS Pro Street isn't worth it's weight in sand anyway so might wanna leave that unopened.

[CDsDontBurn]

i bought it because i liked it!

i played it at my friend's house for a few hours and it was enough for me to decide to buy it. idk, i just like racing games

[Callandor]

Kk, maybe I should give it a whirl as well but imo it looks too much like NFSMW which I didn't like that much/considered to be a downgrade from NFSUG and most importantly NFSUG2, to be trusted. But then again, you can't blame them, I mean where were they gonna go from there to release an NFSUG3 if they did were to do so at all?

[CDsDontBurn]

not at all. NFS:MW is purely arcade style racing. NFS: Pro Street is a little of both arcade and simulation, but more simulation than arcade style racing.

[Callandor]

So firstly, is there night time, and secondly can you drop your cars/add neon/hydros etc for no reason??? I know thats all dumb whether you do it in a game or real life but it's in my genes man, I can't avoid it lol.

[CDsDontBurn]

i don't remember that part specifically. although, the NFS series games will allow you to do that .

and, although you're all into that stuff, i'm the kind of guy who will fix up their car as bad ass as possible, but still keep it looking as stock as possible where the only two visible aftermarket things would be the rims and the 1.5in. drop

[Callandor]

you're a sleeper kind of guy lol

Damn you, you're the kind of guys we think we can race then get our asses handed to us before we know what's happening.

[CDsDontBurn]

damn right!!!

there's no need to flash your ride to let people know what you have. they can find that out when they see my tail lights

i want to fix up my ride so bad right now too! so far, i've taken off the "accord v6" emblem from my car because i plan on doing a single exhaust to my car at some point in time

[Callandor]

Nice, so that's where all your money is going, wait till all your creditors here about this lol

[Callandor]

Nyt man, gots to go to bed, poofed work tomorrow as well.