[CDsDontBurn]

so, if i were to suddenly "disappear" what would you guys think to have happened to me?

[cozumel]

You'd either gone and joined a spam-based forum or you'd gone away for a bit to learn how to spell disappear

[cozumel]

I disappeared once and made on to the TV as missing person. I was with my friends when it came on the TV.

[cozumel]

Anyone else here made it on to TV?

[CDsDontBurn]

no, i mean like "disappear" forever from DH.

most you guys here only have contact w/me through here. and i'm pretty active here on DH. so for me to not post here what would you think?

[cozumel]

I'd just think you'd found something new and different to occupy yourself with. Something better hopefully. Why?

[CDsDontBurn]

even if i disappeared suddenly?

no reason. well....i guess i'm just having "thoughts" provoked by my gf (perhaps soon to be ex-gf) ugh.

i hate religious fanatics

[cozumel]

I might try to 'find' you by email or 'phone but the point is that this is a forum. If you search through the top 100 members (on posts made) you'll see a load who made a ton of posts and then suddenly, for whatever reason, disappear. Without even a 'see ya'. That is probably the nature of this beast to which we belong. It is the reality of the virtual world.

[cozumel]

I remember you posting 'bout this girl before you started dating. Saying about the religion thing and whether it could work. The answer to that question will remain the same. That is up to the two of you to decide what you truly want. The only barriers or obstacles are those which the two of you may choose to place in front of one another. Sometimes, if the road becomes blocked you have to take one hell of a diversion to get where you want to be going. Other times, you may choose to turn the vehicle round and return home, maybe to try again at a later date.

[CDsDontBurn]

this is already the second time we've been together. if she does split with me, i don't think i can get back with her again. it's like she'll be playing with me. she'll show me that she's really undecided about all this.

we even talked about this before getting back together again, and we decided to face everything together and go uphill on all of our problems.

but now....she's backing out.

and we were talking about having our own place, having kids, and everything together. . i was so amped and looking foward to all that.

i want commitment. c'mon, how many guys out there are wanting commitment?

[cozumel]

Maybe a good 'break' would be good to really see what you both really want? Maybe she is the one who is scared at the commitment thing?

But don't listen to me. I'm thousands of miles away.

The only thing I really say is don't base your final decision on negative emotions or feelings. Things like anger, pride, frustration would be the wrong things to make your decisions upon. A break can be good opportunity to put those type of things aside and to reflect on the real things.

Edit: Apologies for using the word 'things' countless times in this post. Very poor.

[CDsDontBurn]

dude, we've been on a "break" already to do exactly what you just described. that happened back in mid-february, and got back together in early july.

[CDsDontBurn]

anyways, i have work tonight at the evguh. i just finished work at 4pm PST to go back to my other work at midnight.

two jobs for our future. a future together that now may seem to not be...



i'm going to sleep. i'll be back on when i get into the office.

[cozumel]

Maybe then it's time to just be friends if, whenever you are together, the relationship deteriorates. You both obviously care about each other...it's horrible when things get so bad you end up hating one another...Is that where it could go, what you're saying?

[cozumel]

Originally Posted by CDsDontBurn

i'm going to sleep. i'll be back on when i get into the office.

Hey, take it easy man...

[Callandor]

Originally Posted by CDsDontBurn

anyways, i have work tonight at the evguh. i just finished work at 4pm PST to go back to my other work at midnight.

two jobs for our future. a future together that now may seem to not be...



i'm going to sleep. i'll be back on when i get into the office.

Good luck man, I know what you're going through, whatever happens don't do anything drastic and I hope you guys end up having a beautiful life together in the end.

[Customgamer1]

HAHA

I made myself look bad in the Vista vs OSX review lol

[Callandor]

-Everyone's- acting weird these days....maybe the LHC actually did have/does have an impact on us and we just don't know it or notice it like Omega said...maybe lol.

[CDsDontBurn]

Originally Posted by cozumel

Maybe then it's time to just be friends if, whenever you are together, the relationship deteriorates. You both obviously care about each other...it's horrible when things get so bad you end up hating one another...Is that where it could go, what you're saying?

i don't think we could be "just friends." we have too many feelings for each other to be just that.

we do care about each other. she constantly tells me. she tells me she wants to split with me to not hurt me in the long run.

i don't think we'll ever get that far to the point where we'll hate each other.

[CDsDontBurn]

Originally Posted by Callandor

Good luck man, I know what you're going through, whatever happens don't do anything drastic and I hope you guys end up having a beautiful life together in the end.

don't do anything drastic eh? alright, i'll take it out on my dad lol. that's a whole different set of problems right there with my parents getting divorced. not even his side of the family approves what's going on between my parents and everybody is siding with my mom. but, that's a whole different can-of-worms in itself.

and, i hope so too.

[Partizan]

Originally Posted by CDsDontBurn

no, i mean like "disappear" forever from DH.

most you guys here only have contact w/me through here. and i'm pretty active here on DH. so for me to not post here what would you think?

I would have guessed you bought ten RX-8, started a new RX-8 club and just drove around in your RX-8 all day&night long