How do you go out on a date?

i suck at life · Aug 24, 2004, 03:15 PM

Okay so it was my sisters party, and there was a girl that i had know for years, but hadnt seen for months. She was a lot hotter than the last time i saw her, so i asked for her sn, whatever, and i told her that i like her in person, and she said she liked me back. On AIM, i asked her when we would go out again. She said a date and time and place and whatever. And then i thought to myself.

What am i supposed to say on a date? What do i do?

So neone wanna help me?

Nacht · Aug 24, 2004, 04:12 PM

hahahah

well, try to limit the aim convos ;-)

dinners and movies are a bit overdone...girls like it when you think of something creative. what do you talk about? well, you havent seen her for months, so talk about that etc.

drakesteakn · Aug 24, 2004, 04:51 PM

good luck, i'm like u.

***craig5320*** · Aug 24, 2004, 05:13 PM

Make her laugh, make her feel special, pay for her where ever you go, be yourself, treat her nice, don't discuss your past or hers (romance wise) and never ever check out other girls while in her company

GutterPunk · Aug 24, 2004, 05:18 PM

Okay man find out what she likes to do, sometimes an active thing like bowling or mini golf is fun, then going out to dinner, or dinner first. Dinner is always something that is done, take her to a nice restraunt nothing fancy but nothing cheap.

when you first pick her up make sure to go to the door, dont honk the horn or anything go straight to the door, if you do not know the parents introduce yourself. When you first see her compliment her, You look very nice tonight or you look lovely. When leaving if you met her parents be sure to say nice meeting you

. Win the parents over too its a big plus. Open the car door for her and drive off. Be polite, and be yourself! good luck and i hope this helped! any more questions feel free to pm or ask or post here

germanjulian · Aug 24, 2004, 05:22 PM

dont do anything or be anyone..... be yourself!!!!

just tread her like a normal person! just talk talk talk... maybe mention ur bit nervous if you really are. but it sounds like ur really young and inexperienced.
well the more dates you have and g/f etc the better you will get... but most important be yourself

(OMG: my g/f farted........ its so bad.. thats the worst fart I ever smelled... its like rotten egg but so bad... OMG...... why do I go out with her)

frx218 · Aug 24, 2004, 05:26 PM

be yourself and dont try to hard

GutterPunk · Aug 24, 2004, 05:31 PM

dont say your nervous man unless you are completely on edge. Go in with confidence... tell yourself you are gonna win yourself another date.

Falstaff · Aug 24, 2004, 06:21 PM

"nice ass, get in the truck".....or something like that
candy is dandy..but...er....well, um..
then there are family reunions and WWF night back home...
and afternoons with Winston Cup Racing....its all good

Geminiwave · Aug 24, 2004, 07:31 PM

oh yeah one other thing...its alittle cheezy but it always works. Go look at some hot girl that walks by and then say "I wish more girls dressed like you" Seriously it works SOO well. They love it.

the other thing is if she likes you...just be yourself. its not fair to her to be someone else when who she likes is YOU.

oh yeah and while it is old fassioned...ive never met a girl who doesnt like you opening doors for them and paying for dinner and stuff.

digerati · Aug 24, 2004, 07:38 PM

Be absolutely perfect, and DON'T SCREW UP.

No pressure.

The_Neon_Cowboy · Aug 24, 2004, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Nacht

hahahah

well, try to limit the aim convos ;-)

dinners and movies are a bit overdone...girls like it when you think of something creative. what do you talk about? well, you havent seen her for months, so talk about that etc.

Bad advice!

talk online! on the phone what ever she wan'ts....
(it'll speed things up, plus give you things to talk about)

be your self and take interest

Nacht · Aug 24, 2004, 07:43 PM

i know talk to her alot, but for some reason alot of girls dont seem to like the instant messenger side of things. they would much rather you call them.

at dinner, be sure to get her chair for her! they love that....stupid little stuff like that is what they live for.

GutterPunk · Aug 24, 2004, 07:49 PM

dont keep condoms in your wallet as they go bad in there

MythicaL · Aug 24, 2004, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by GutterPunk

dont keep condoms in your wallet as they go bad in there

Yeah... thanks

GutterPunk · Aug 24, 2004, 08:12 PM

hey dont want any little johnsons running around
if in doubt pull OUT!

Nacht · Aug 24, 2004, 08:28 PM

hahah lord no! always wear a party hat...that pull out stuff is...shall we say unreliable?

No_Style · Aug 24, 2004, 08:28 PM

Why not trying being honest? By coming here and asking us how to go on a date, why not ask what she'd like to do on the date? Tell her she's the first girl you're going on a date with... she'll feel special. Honesty goes a long way.

pr0digal jenius · Aug 24, 2004, 09:05 PM

ok...here is what you do

take her to a community park and go on a picnic some saturday afternoon. and if it rains...go anyways and play in the rain instead

Borealis · Aug 24, 2004, 10:33 PM

Be a good listener. Pr0digal beat me to what I was going to say, picnic or something like that. I suppose you don't have a beach nearby do you? Sunset walk on the shore my man!

Dark Lord · Aug 24, 2004, 10:45 PM

dont know how well this works or not, but if youve got a convertable go and try to get lost out in the country. nothing quite like a real nice drive out in the country in a convertable, even better if you can manage to get lost. besides, when your sitting next to each other for and hour or more, you can find out quite abit about each other.

Geminiwave · Aug 24, 2004, 10:58 PM

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dont keep condoms in your wallet as they go bad in there [img]images/smilies/smilie.gif[/img]

no seriously they really do. the heat from your butt makes them get weak and stop working. Its bad times.

Other than that, yeah being completely honest to the level of embaressing yourself CAN be the best thing.

unless shes shallow and bitchy...

in which case you're screwed(and not in the good way) but better in the long run because she isnt good enough for you if shes that way.

Ev!L-aLphA · Aug 24, 2004, 11:26 PM

i usualy take girls out to a movie (multipul girls sometimes lol :P) and during the movie i make funny comments n just make them laugh and i make sure they enjoy their time with me.

Ask them if they need something... after the movie i take them out to like some icecream or starbux or whatever it is and we all hang out and just chill. IF u really want to impress a girl take her somewhere really nice but not too boring and just try to have as much fun. DONT OVER CROWD HER tough thast bad unless shes totaly inlove with u :P

Get to know her better... what kind of music she likes.. favorite color ect lol

EDIT! OH and in the end of the day dont go and kiss her like i dont know what if u know she really enjoyed and it looks like she really wants to than kiss her. If you are still not very sure yet give her a nice big hug and a bye

im sorta short on time so i didint really tell u any spacific things but yea

word from the evil

oh btw im as old as u too so i know what girls these days like

(not like any one else doesent or something)

Judas · Aug 24, 2004, 11:26 PM

maybe i missed it.... but... be yourself?

no one likes an overreacter... or show off.. it can be plainly obvious but to "the person showing off" may think it's all good still as most people won't let them know he/she's a moron..

Don't mention the weather if you can handle it.. don't mention Money, or Politics.... if you can help it.... religion may be another.... it really dependso n the person.. some blindly believe in those matters or take the matters to seriously and end up with a mess quick....

ask about generally everything else.. figure out the intersts.. and see if youcan find some relation.. or try to fill in what you can about what you might know on a specific subject....

GutterPunk · Aug 24, 2004, 11:58 PM

yeah most people already said be urself Judas its definitely one of the best things you can do for urself (unelss you want a 1 night stand)

quoting myself in my first post

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Originally Posted by GutterPunk

Be polite, and be yourself!

Geminiwave · Aug 25, 2004, 12:36 AM

yeah this is all good advice. ultimately, dont treat her like shes incompetent, but treat her with mass respect (opening doors and stuff)

I've met one girl that got MAJORLY pissed at me for opening the door and letting her go first. shes like "do you thinkb ecause im a girl i cant do that on my own?!" and I go "of course not, but I wanted to show a sign that i have a deep respect for you and also I just wanted to be nice" but that wasnt good enough.

later she said she was on a major PMS trip though...

just hope it isnt the case for you.