Posting this reply as someone who had exactly the same issue with OCZ RAM. I'm afraid your going to have to live with it running at the lower speeds or sell it and buy a matched set.
Personally i've stuck with it running at the lower speeds until I have the cash to replace them.
OCZ have at some point changed the spd's on the RAM which are supposed to be SLI compatible (IE specially selected to run with other SLI components or in plainer English: marketing bollocks). I have four sticks of OCZ RAM some of which achieve EPP at 1.9v (1066mhz) and some which achieve the same clocks at 2.1v which causes the motherboard to detect it as non matched and therefore disables SLI. Manually adjusting the clock speeds results in instability and lock-ups as not only has the voltage been changed but some of the timings have been altered too.
In OCZ's defence I was issued with an RMA number but 2 weeks later when I received my RAM back the third set was different to the previous two sets despite me asking to send in all four sticks so they could be matched which they declined to do (this would have meant system downtime for me which I was willing to accept).
I will however add that OCZ do make high quality RAM just make sure you buy at the same time what you'll need.
I'll summarise by saying don't try to match OCZ ram sticks it'll cause you heartache and leave you with a bitter taste in the mouth at the wasted money and time.
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