lol. i have all bases covered when posting up issues that require system specs and things like trying out other RAM

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anyways...the board itself isn't that old. the chipset though is a bit old, VIA266. i never went into the BIOS to adjust any timings as i had configured those timings to "auto" when i first put the computer together a while ago. Then the RAM being CL3 (both my RAM and his RAM), i wouldn't have thought it would require more than the default 2.6v that the auto config sets it to.
When my friend contacted me that my RAM had failed in his board, i didn't ask him on which passes it had failed on. all he told me was that it had 4 lines of failure. and remember, that was in ~6hrs. vs. his RAM which had 2 lines of failure in ~24hrs.